Personal Protection Order Against - Husbands Girlfriend
I feel my daughter and I are in need of a personal protection order against Julie Looper because she has been stalking and threatening me for the past 4 months. She is my husband, Jamie Heinzel’s, girlfriend; I am afraid she feels like she has something to prove by threatening my life, harassing, taunting, badgering, and intimidating me. Over the last few months she has approached me numerous times and has tried to start a fight with me and has now threatened to kill me. I am terrified as to what might happen because each meeting becomes more heated and intense than the last. I have no idea what she may do to my daughter since she has so much animosity and hate for me. I feel Julie has confused and caused emotional stress for Samantha. Since, my daughter has talked about “ice cream Julie” walking around in the hotel room in her underwear and her having slept in the same bed with her daddy during the weekend of July 26th – July 28th. I am still trying to explain to my daughter why her daddy is not coming home and is spending so much time with ice cream Julie. Ice cream Julie is what my daughter calls her since she works at Jeanne’s Sweet Shop. I, as well as, others have heard Julie say that she does not like children nor want them. If she wants to kill me what is she going to do to my daughter who looks just like me and is my own flesh and blood; that is not a risk I am willing to take.
On Saturday, October 5th, 2002 the most recent event occurred between Julie Looper and Julie Turske, her friend, and another girl whom I didn’t recognize and myself. We had several shouting matches in Sneakers and at the end of the night they followed me into the bathroom. I was terrified. I would not come out of the stall because I was scared, and trying to figure out what I was going to do. I finally came out of the bathroom and both Julie’s were right in my face screaming obscenities at me. I tried to walk away. Then, Julie Turske who is about 5’2 and 160 was walking on my heels with Julie Looper following her. My friend Kim Schalk was there and called my name so I stopped and they both ran over me. I turned around and had to shove Turske and Looper out of my way. I was told by both of them that if they ever saw me again they were going to kill me. Ryan Werth of Alpena heard this and I believe my friend Kim Schalk did, as well. I was in tears and scared beyond belief. I told Julie Looper what is the point of all these scare tactics when she is sleeping with my own husband. What more does she want? She told me that she wishes I was dead and out of the way. My friend and I had to be escorted out by two guards. We got to the car and Julie was parked right next to ours. So, Jason, the guard, told one of our friends to pull behind them since they were waiting for us to leave. He pulled behind Julie’s friend’s car so, we could be let out. The minute we left they began to follow us home. We quickly did a U- turn and came back into the parking lot. I was in tears most of the ride home. One of our friends followed us back to Rogers City to make sure we got here okay. I am in constant fear of my life and no one is doing anything about it. This incident happened in front of tons of people and the guards at Sneakers. It is ridiculous that I am not allowed to go out with friends without having to worry about being seriously injured or even killed by some psycho girl who is not in her right mind. Why should I have to live in fear?
On June 29th, 2002 Julie Looper came into Sneakers with a camera. Numerous times she had she approached me and tried to provoke me into a physical confrontation. I ignored her and would walked away but, she kept following me and taking pictures. I was drinking Sprite and enjoying some leisure time with my friends. Several of my friends witnessed her actions. I was extremely alarmed, scared, and fearful. I am very petite, 5’3” and weigh about 95 pounds. So, getting into a brawl with Julie, who is about 5’5” and 135 or so, was very stressful and nerve racking for me. I am not a violent person.
Several times throughout July and August, I do not have exact dates Julie has come into Sneakers and has invaded my personal space. I have told her over and over to just leave me alone. I never seek her out and just try to ignore her. I told her that if she did not leave me alone that I would have to seek to have the law protect me. I am sick and tired of her harassment. I do not deserve this additional stress. It is bad enough that my husband has hurt me but for her to continually try to get into physical confrontations with me is cruel, ruthless, and merciless. I feel Jamie and Julie are trying to provoke me into hitting Julie so that they can put me in jail for domestic violence and make me look like I am incompetent as a mother.
On August 29th, 2002 Julie came into Bogart’s. Once again, she put me in a threatening position while I was shooting pool then, walked out. My friend Kim Schalk witnessed this. I was very shook up and enraged that this continuing wherever I go.
Then, this past Saturday August 31st, 2002 at Sneakers in Alpena, Julie Looper walked in with my husband Jamie Heinzel. As I stated in City Police complaint # 3367-2 that they both walked up and confronted me. I was very scared and nervous I told Jamie that he was not allowed to be there since he was out on bond and I have a PPO against him. He told me he has every right to be anywhere he wanted. I told him that if he didn’t leave that I would be forced to take action and file a report against him. Julie got in my face and started cursing and yelling at me. I walked away feeling very shaken and upset. I walked outside to talk with the hotel security and hotel manager. They proceeded to tell me that they really could not do anything about it unless I had the PPO on me. So, I walked back inside very alarmed and frustrated. I felt nauseated so, I walked up to the bar to ask for a glass of water to try and relax me. Julie saw me and started screaming at me from across the bar and calling me a “f*cking bitch and a f*cking whore and how much she hates me.” I had finally had enough and I said that if she was going to hit me then hit me. I walked out to get some fresh air and use the restroom. On my way out of the bathroom Julie was walking and heading towards me. Again we exchanged heated words. I was shaking and went inside where my friends told me that I should not leave because Jamie and Julie might follow me.
Again, I am begging for your help in this very stressful situation. I am fearful for my safety and peace of mind if she is allowed to continue these attacks against me. I cannot take this abuse and stress any longer. I did not follow through with this before because I thought she would stop knowing that I was going to press this. But, it has gotten much worse since she now has her own personal brut squad with her. I am scared for my life and the safety of my children. Between my husbands abuse and now his girlfriend’s I do not feel safe here and haven’t in a long, long time.
On Saturday, October 5th, 2002 the most recent event occurred between Julie Looper and Julie Turske, her friend, and another girl whom I didn’t recognize and myself. We had several shouting matches in Sneakers and at the end of the night they followed me into the bathroom. I was terrified. I would not come out of the stall because I was scared, and trying to figure out what I was going to do. I finally came out of the bathroom and both Julie’s were right in my face screaming obscenities at me. I tried to walk away. Then, Julie Turske who is about 5’2 and 160 was walking on my heels with Julie Looper following her. My friend Kim Schalk was there and called my name so I stopped and they both ran over me. I turned around and had to shove Turske and Looper out of my way. I was told by both of them that if they ever saw me again they were going to kill me. Ryan Werth of Alpena heard this and I believe my friend Kim Schalk did, as well. I was in tears and scared beyond belief. I told Julie Looper what is the point of all these scare tactics when she is sleeping with my own husband. What more does she want? She told me that she wishes I was dead and out of the way. My friend and I had to be escorted out by two guards. We got to the car and Julie was parked right next to ours. So, Jason, the guard, told one of our friends to pull behind them since they were waiting for us to leave. He pulled behind Julie’s friend’s car so, we could be let out. The minute we left they began to follow us home. We quickly did a U- turn and came back into the parking lot. I was in tears most of the ride home. One of our friends followed us back to Rogers City to make sure we got here okay. I am in constant fear of my life and no one is doing anything about it. This incident happened in front of tons of people and the guards at Sneakers. It is ridiculous that I am not allowed to go out with friends without having to worry about being seriously injured or even killed by some psycho girl who is not in her right mind. Why should I have to live in fear?
On June 29th, 2002 Julie Looper came into Sneakers with a camera. Numerous times she had she approached me and tried to provoke me into a physical confrontation. I ignored her and would walked away but, she kept following me and taking pictures. I was drinking Sprite and enjoying some leisure time with my friends. Several of my friends witnessed her actions. I was extremely alarmed, scared, and fearful. I am very petite, 5’3” and weigh about 95 pounds. So, getting into a brawl with Julie, who is about 5’5” and 135 or so, was very stressful and nerve racking for me. I am not a violent person.
Several times throughout July and August, I do not have exact dates Julie has come into Sneakers and has invaded my personal space. I have told her over and over to just leave me alone. I never seek her out and just try to ignore her. I told her that if she did not leave me alone that I would have to seek to have the law protect me. I am sick and tired of her harassment. I do not deserve this additional stress. It is bad enough that my husband has hurt me but for her to continually try to get into physical confrontations with me is cruel, ruthless, and merciless. I feel Jamie and Julie are trying to provoke me into hitting Julie so that they can put me in jail for domestic violence and make me look like I am incompetent as a mother.
On August 29th, 2002 Julie came into Bogart’s. Once again, she put me in a threatening position while I was shooting pool then, walked out. My friend Kim Schalk witnessed this. I was very shook up and enraged that this continuing wherever I go.
Then, this past Saturday August 31st, 2002 at Sneakers in Alpena, Julie Looper walked in with my husband Jamie Heinzel. As I stated in City Police complaint # 3367-2 that they both walked up and confronted me. I was very scared and nervous I told Jamie that he was not allowed to be there since he was out on bond and I have a PPO against him. He told me he has every right to be anywhere he wanted. I told him that if he didn’t leave that I would be forced to take action and file a report against him. Julie got in my face and started cursing and yelling at me. I walked away feeling very shaken and upset. I walked outside to talk with the hotel security and hotel manager. They proceeded to tell me that they really could not do anything about it unless I had the PPO on me. So, I walked back inside very alarmed and frustrated. I felt nauseated so, I walked up to the bar to ask for a glass of water to try and relax me. Julie saw me and started screaming at me from across the bar and calling me a “f*cking bitch and a f*cking whore and how much she hates me.” I had finally had enough and I said that if she was going to hit me then hit me. I walked out to get some fresh air and use the restroom. On my way out of the bathroom Julie was walking and heading towards me. Again we exchanged heated words. I was shaking and went inside where my friends told me that I should not leave because Jamie and Julie might follow me.
Again, I am begging for your help in this very stressful situation. I am fearful for my safety and peace of mind if she is allowed to continue these attacks against me. I cannot take this abuse and stress any longer. I did not follow through with this before because I thought she would stop knowing that I was going to press this. But, it has gotten much worse since she now has her own personal brut squad with her. I am scared for my life and the safety of my children. Between my husbands abuse and now his girlfriend’s I do not feel safe here and haven’t in a long, long time.
posted by Faith at 7:01 AM
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