Jamie's Emotional Inconsistency
June 12, 2003
To Whom It May Concern: Friend of Court
On June 5, 2003 Samantha was invited to go over to Brooklyn’s, one of her friends, home to play around 2:30-3:00. I asked Jamie about it on Tuesday, June 3, 2003 he ignored me. I then called him on Wednesday and asked him again. Jamie got very angry at me and told me that if I wanted to get her early that day I would have to contact the Judge and get it changed. I said you mean you won’t allow me to have from 2:30 to 6:30 so that she can play with her friend? He said absolutely not. That there is a court order and we have to follow it strictly. I said, “Well you have never followed an order yet, why can’t you be flexible.” He again refused. I said, “Jamie it will not look very good for you if we can’t work together. How is this good for Samantha if she is not allowed to go play at her friend’s house and you won’t let her just to spite me.” He was very angry with me and yelled, “Call the Judge and change it in court” and hung up on me.
But now when it benefits him, Jamie jumps to the opportunity to follow a Schedule that I offered him so that he gets her for Father’s Day. But to go play at a friend’s house we have to follow the order strictly. I am just trying to show his emotional inconsistency.
Last year 2002, I didn’t get my Children for Mother’s day other than for church because it was his weekend.
The only reason I got to see Samantha on Christmas was because I offered Jamie to come over and watch Grayson open the presents he and his family had bought him because I thought it was the right thing to do. I even told him to bring his camera if he wanted.
And this year February 6, 2003 when he was refusing me Parenting Time he ruined Grayson’s birthday party because he refused to leave my home and refused to Samantha to enjoy her brother’s party. Grayson still brings it up.
There are so many other times that I won’t get into them all with you. So, when the situation interests Jamie he will be flexible but if it helps me in any way or Samantha then he is steadfast on the rules of the court. And even makes them up as he goes. He seems to not stop and think what is in the best interest of Samantha, who is the most important person in all of this. Every decision like this he makes affects her greatly.
To Whom It May Concern: Friend of Court
On June 5, 2003 Samantha was invited to go over to Brooklyn’s, one of her friends, home to play around 2:30-3:00. I asked Jamie about it on Tuesday, June 3, 2003 he ignored me. I then called him on Wednesday and asked him again. Jamie got very angry at me and told me that if I wanted to get her early that day I would have to contact the Judge and get it changed. I said you mean you won’t allow me to have from 2:30 to 6:30 so that she can play with her friend? He said absolutely not. That there is a court order and we have to follow it strictly. I said, “Well you have never followed an order yet, why can’t you be flexible.” He again refused. I said, “Jamie it will not look very good for you if we can’t work together. How is this good for Samantha if she is not allowed to go play at her friend’s house and you won’t let her just to spite me.” He was very angry with me and yelled, “Call the Judge and change it in court” and hung up on me.
But now when it benefits him, Jamie jumps to the opportunity to follow a Schedule that I offered him so that he gets her for Father’s Day. But to go play at a friend’s house we have to follow the order strictly. I am just trying to show his emotional inconsistency.
Last year 2002, I didn’t get my Children for Mother’s day other than for church because it was his weekend.
The only reason I got to see Samantha on Christmas was because I offered Jamie to come over and watch Grayson open the presents he and his family had bought him because I thought it was the right thing to do. I even told him to bring his camera if he wanted.
And this year February 6, 2003 when he was refusing me Parenting Time he ruined Grayson’s birthday party because he refused to leave my home and refused to Samantha to enjoy her brother’s party. Grayson still brings it up.
There are so many other times that I won’t get into them all with you. So, when the situation interests Jamie he will be flexible but if it helps me in any way or Samantha then he is steadfast on the rules of the court. And even makes them up as he goes. He seems to not stop and think what is in the best interest of Samantha, who is the most important person in all of this. Every decision like this he makes affects her greatly.
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