Thursday, April 22, 2004

UPDATE FROM APRIL 21st and 22nd 2004:

BIG PRAISES TO GOD!!!!! I am just so excited.... WOOO HOOO!!! Thank you for praying for me. Thank you so much.... one hump is over now we go on to tomorrow. Pray that God will just touch Judge Radzibon’s heart and change it. He was more compassionate today for me. Awesome!!! Thank you for caring!!!!!! We had a miracle today over 5 (Prosecutor, Jamie’s atty, CPS, Samantha’s atty, and Play Therapist) against my attorney and me... I had to testify and his mother lied on the stand and the play therapist showed how BIAS she was to the EXTREME... the Judge did not take my parenting time away... PRAISE GOD! Keep us in your prayers. Thank you!!! Praise God Gerald Gray, Asst. Prosecutor, was not in the courtroom the Prosecutor; Don McClennan was he does not have a personal vendetta against me like Gerald Gray.
The Judge ordered me to start going to therapy with a Psychologist or Psychiatrist and also to go to Play Therapy with Samantha once a month. Just not sure how I am going to afford the Therapy but God will provide. He is my Provider. I think this is positive since I have already had a Psychological that did not show many problems and I have proof backing up everything that I have said. Think he just ordered it to get everyone off his back.
The play therapist, Judy Thompson, said that Samantha is not getting any nurturing from me whatsoever and that the nurturing that she gets comes from her office. She also said that Samantha refuses to talk to her about anything in her life and Samantha tells her that she comes to play not to talk. Ms. Thompson said that this is not common or normal with other children going through a divorce. Since he is paying her salary she refuses to say that her father is hurting her. Jamie is also participating in therapy. It was supposed to be a Neutral environment from Jamie and I and it has never been. But Samantha says that Ms. Thompson is daddy's friend. She won't talk because the trust is not there. Ms. Thompson did testify that Samantha's therapy has stayed consistent and nothing new has happened. Now she is going to have to face me after she lied in court about me. Pray for protection.
My mother-in-law got up and lied saying that Samantha did something inappropriate at her home 3 weeks ago after a bath and said that it was because of her Mommy and Gran... well, when cross examined she said that it has only happened once and she has given Samantha over 10 baths or more.... and this just happened. Praise GOD!!! She lied and her deceit was seen through by the Judge and the Prosecutor!! I asked Samantha during her visit and she had asked her grandma to put medicine on her because she was so red and hurting… and she never said anything about mom and I… Samantha said Grandma is a Liar and Ms. Judy is a BIG liar. They tried to kick me when I was down and it backfired; how Awesome God is it just made Jamie and his mother look really bad.
I had to take the stand, and I was persecuted for my morals and faith because I teach my little girl that it is inappropriate for a married man to be sleeping with another woman especially when she is crawling into bed with her father and his girlfriend when they are naked. I stood up for my LORD today. He was there and just blessed and protected us in Court. I was very passionate and concerned talking about the 80 bruises and how Samantha has told me that Jamie has sexually molested her. Jamie’s attorney pushed me and God gave me the words and emotions to explain what she has been through with frustration and pain in my voice. The judge had been upset because I was so composed and acted like a lady on the stand during the divorce trial. Judge Radzibon saw the raw truth of what I have been dealing with. I had Property Settlement hearing also. Finalization of my divorce should be in May. Please pray that the Judge is fair and will have compassion with his decision. Jamie lied on the stand about the property and we proved him wrong. He testified that once he left me that we were not married any more and could buy whatever he wanted… the judge reminded him that we are still married. We have to file our closing Property Argument with the Judge by April 30, 2004. Pray that Judge Radzibon’s heart will be touched and that this Spiritual blindness and blindness of the truth will be lifted. Keep Praying for Justice for my family. Thank you so much.
PRAISE THE LORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!