GAMES

Games... Almost everyone I know tells me they are not looking to play games both men and women. They just want someone who is straight forward and says what they mean. NO GAMES!!! I think I have probably even said that a few times. heheh... but do we really mean that??? I know when a man decides to be deceitful that my mind flips into overdrive and it really becomes a game and usually he never knows what hit him. Dishonesty is a no no with me. If it happens then as the ref says in the UFC ring GET IT ON... and I have my gloves on.

I know for me I love a good game. I know the game of cat and mouse is usually an enjoyable one. It's not much fun if you can easily catch a the mouse but if the mouse is coy and spirited and highly intelligent and of course inventive that makes the mouse more fun to play with. Men don't usually like women that are easy... yes they might be a good lay but on the whole of what they want commitment wise... then no bimbo Barbie just won't cut it.

I know as a child I loved games. We all did as children. We still do, as adults, it doesn't have to be a board game... some of us are attracted to WHODUNIT's in books or movies... We almost all love a good thriller that shocks us as we sit there going "oh my I never thought that would happen". We are thrill seekers in some form or another. It just depends on our personality. That is how the Lord made us, we are not boring creatures.

I guess for me I just want to come right out and say that I love a good game. I know how to play it well too. The game of love yes, I have lost out on it a few times usually because I love to play the CAT. I am no mouse to be caught. I love to dare anyone to seems to think otherwise. The psychological aspect of the chase is what excites me. I love mental and emotional strategies... if I move this way he will do this or that. Love is a game... Attraction is the best one of all. Women can use our female 6th sense and usually get exactly what we are wanting. Hands down if a woman is very comfortable in her own skin and knowing who she is that is a big turn on for a man. Confident woman = awesome game player.

Now, I have to say for myself I do prefer a "CAT" in a man. I love a confident strong personality. He knows what he wants and how to get it. But there must also be that sensitivity. I am not looking for a Stray Cat that sprays every where he roams... Mr. Another Notch in my Belt... you are not really the Cat I am describing here.

The Game, sometimes yes, it gets old. Some mice are a bore once you finally catch them so, I personally quickly let them go from my sharp claws. And yes, they are sharp, I don't suggest you test them out. For me, the mind is my favorite playing field. There are so many aspects that you can play on when it comes to the mind, be creative. So, I love to find men that can stimulate my brain, if he is good looking then that is a plus but he has to intrigue me. He has to show me he is interested and have that confidence and possibly a tinge of arrogance so he lets me know he is worth my time.

I would love for once to hear someone tell me they love a good game and say let's play and see who wins. But in the end I want to find one that will play for keeps; that will keep the game going and keep the interaction interesting. The Lord knows that this little Cat does not like to be bored.

God Bless